Susah kan jadi perempuan & seorang isteri?
Zaman sekarang ni… tanggungjawab ke atas rumah tangga dah equal between husband and wife. Ye la… dedua pun kena keje until family. Dua2 x cukup rehat. Dapat pulak isteri yang bile balik keje kena memasak.. jaga anak2.. basuh baju. Hadoi… It sound so tiring. Well, that was how our mothers were, kan?
Actually burden rumah tangga ni dah lama equally shared with spouse.. sejak zaman tok moyang kita lagi. Beza nya.. kita tinggalkan anak2 kita dari sejak baby. Grandma kita dulu masa anak2 masih baby, diorang mencarik rezeki dari rumah. Buat kuih, jahit baju, tenun anyaman, buat atap nipah. And bile anak2 semua dah besar and boleh jaga diri sendiri, baru la grandma kita ni dapat tolong suami kat kebun, bersawah, amik upah kutip buah kat dusun.
Tapi grandma kita dulu dgn kita sekarang as a woman & wife, kita ni banyak sgt opinion! Ntah lah… I am not sure if that is ever a good thing to have an opinion for everything that comes out from his mouth or from his doing. Sure ego seorang lelaki yg bernama suami akan tercalar. When that happen….. how? Is sorry going to make any difference? No.. because it will sure happen again.
Ouh… kesian juga memikirkan nasib si suami yg mcm ni. Tapi… penat juga si isteri.. yang terpaksa pikirkan semua benda utk family. Dah lah kalau tersalah cakap, syurga tu di tapak kaki suami.. silap haribulan.. tak terbau syurga tu!
Nasib kita la wanita di zaman ni. We are so dependent that having a husband just sometimes doesn’t make a sense. Ahahahah.. I mean, if the wife always have to figure things out, suami buat apa? Agaknya… sbb kan reason ni juga la zaman skrang ramai yang jadi tomboy and penkid. Eh.. betol ke statement ni? :p Well, diorang tu sebenarnye confuse. Yang I maksudkan ialah iron lady. Bukan queen control ye!!!!!
I tak suka statement queen control tu. I sayang suami I.. walaupun I tak takut kat suami I (:P), but I want him to have all the say about my life and my family. Cuma I harap…. Encik suami dapat buat keputusan yang molek utk kami sekeluarga 
… Ouh tidak!! My husband don’t control me! Cuma… I like to have a man who have me in control. Sbb dulu mak control kan… skrang suami la plak. Insya Allah.. with that I can be a better person, isteri yang solehah & ibu yang mithali. Sbb.. kalau ikut my own style to control myself.. I will have all the handbags in the world in my wardrobe! Hahahahahahaha!
I hope.. kalau ada suami2 yang terbaca entry I ni.. akan realize, isteri tu bising2 sbb she wants u to be in control.. so she doesn’t have to be a queen control! Hehehehehe..
And kalau ada isteri2 yang baca.. and terasa diri itu queen control, the best thing u can do is to look back and see if it has bring any good to ur family. Sbb ada sesetengah lelaki ni mmg suka isteri dia On TOP! Hahahaha :p
Sekian.
Ps: apa2 pun… mmg bess kalau dapat suami macam Edward Anthony Mason Cullen. Romantic gile macam Seth Tan gitu! Aawwwww!
